The ex has been blowing up my spot bigtime. I can't really say that we ever really kept in contact consistently but lately he's been calling a lot. The first call was unexpectedly out of the blue. He was thinking about me( so he says) and wanted to see what I was up to. Okay, that's cool. We had a nice convo, reminisced, talked about our relationship, He thanked me and told me how much I meant to him back then and blase' blah. He says he would like to see me(mind you ...not to try to get with me but just to see an "old friend".) Says I can stay with him or he can come and see me. I said I don't know about that. He tried to feign being hurt that I wouldn't want to see him again,which isn't exactlyw hat I said. I just said that I didn't know about that. But anyway, I have talked to him about 3 or 4 times in the past two weeks which is really saying a lot. I wonder what is up with him? He told me he doesn't have a girlfriend when he first called, preferring to refer to her only as "my baby mama" which in laymens terms translates to yes, she had my child, yes we are still fucking even though I don't claim her as my woman to other females.I really don't mind him calling although I don't think that I would ever get back together with him. That's a part of my life that is best left in the past. We can be friends all day every day but as for anything more, I don't think so (but I've learned to never say never.)