I did not have TEXT with that woman

I was just sitting her talking to some co-workers about Kwame Kilpatrick.  I don't Know what it is with these men cheating on their wives and getting caught. Kwame Kilpatrick is being charged with perjury over his lies pertaining to his affair. He deserved to be caught too because he wasn't even smart about it. Text messages? TEXT MESSAGES? C'mon now Kwame, you just wanted to give old girl some evidence to show your wife if and when things went sour between you all. At least Bill made Monica work for her cum stained dress..but you, you want to send a Text Message. I guess he learned nothing from Bill Clinton and his "I did not have sex with that woman" Well he did learn something ....he learned that it didn't work for Bill and it ain't gonna work for him !

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We Need This Type Of Sexy In The White House

So What I jacked these photos from My girl Kizz's  joint....  but Lawdy if  these photos don't make Barack  look sexy as hell!    I love these candid photos because they let us see the laid back, down to earth  side of the man!    

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A sistah is tired as hell

I'm about to head on out in an hour or two to meet the girls for our spa day. Dayum! I'm looking forward to it too because my ass needs to be rubbed, kneaded, massaged and everything else badly. I'm even willing to brave this snow that is coming down in order to get my spa fix. Yes, I said SNOW!  Can you believe it?  Here it is March, Daylight Savings Time is tomorrow, Spring fever is somewhat in the air, and its snowing out!  Unbelievable!  Anyway, back to my spa day.  I am going to get the works..... mani, pedi, massage, mud wrap, facial, scalp massage, erythang!  I need it too and I cannot wait!!!!!  

On Wednesday, I was up for 21 hours straight.  I have never felt as tired as I felt that day.  I was sitting in my ride at the stop light at about 3:30 in the morning  and  I just zoned out.  I remember staring at the light waiting for it to change and then not too much afterwards. I'm petty sure my eyes weren't closed but when I "snapped out of it"  so to speak, I didn't even know if I had sat through some lights or what, that's how tired I was.  That happened to me twice before I made it home.   Before, I could never understand how people could fall asleep at the wheel.  I always wondered why they wouldn't just pull over if they felt sleepy instead of risking having an accident.  Now I fully understand! I've never been that tired before in all my life.  I mean, the closer I got to home, the more physically ill I got.  I had the headache from hell and my stomach felt like it was in knots, all that due to lack of sleep.  When I finally made it in, I barely had enough energy to take off my pants (didn't even bother with  my shirt) and I literally fell into bed.  I coveted those two hours of sleep because I had to get up at 5:30 A.M. the next day.   Yes, I am disciplined like that!  2 hours sleep after  being awake for 22 hours straight, and I still wake up on time:  no alarm clock needed!  *poppin' mah collar*  Needless to say, I was no good to anyone.  Jazzy had the nerve to want to go out last night but I couldn't do it.  I'm still not completely caught up on my rest yet and on top of that, I get to lose an hour tomorrow due to the clocks "springing" forward.  I suspect after I receive the works today, I'll be close to being back to normal and feeling like my old self again.  I promised I would go out tonight but my plans as of now are tentative at best.  Depends on how I'm feeling!

Since I've missed the Old School Friday, last week and this week, I thought I'd leave you with this from the Brand Nubians.  I know ya'll know about Grand Puba..lol  New School hip hop ain't got shyt on the artists from back in the day.   ENJOY!

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To Eat or Not to Eat?......That is the Question.

How important is Cunnilingus to you? To your relationship?  Could you see yourself in a relationship where this was not an option?  How about if you were married and it still was not an option?  I asked mysef these same questions and surprised myself  somewhat.   I guess it would depend on how much I loved the guy.  I guess I could see myself in a relationship where this wasn't an option but that would have to go both ways because If i'm not getting any,  he isn't either.

I love oral sex as long as I am on the receiving end.  I'm very generous with my giving as well but I have to be the one initiating it. (None of that hand on the back of the head shyt trying to coax you down and keep you down.... don't act like ya'll don't know what I'm talking about)

 Ya'll know the type of female that truly enjoys giving head.  I mean she can cum by just making him cum.  Most times she'd rather do that than anything else and her oral fixation is insatiable....well ummm...errrr... that chick is not me.  I don't love it but I don't hate it either.  It really does nothing for me (as I'm sure it isn't supposed to) but I do like the control that I have while doing it. 

 

Anyway, back to my original question.  I think it's safe to assume that most men will lick a little clit now-a-days.  There may be some who will play the role like they don't and they may need a little push but they're down to at least try. While it is a rarity (at least I believe it to be) there may be that one man  that just refuses to go down on you.  He may have had a bad experience with hygiene,  it may be due to his upbringing or he just doesn't believe that the mouth is supposed to be used on the  genitals.  Whatever his reasoning may be, is his refusal to perform Cunnilingus an automatic deal breaker for you or do you think that you could change his mind?

 I think that most men love head way too much to ever totally give it up so in most instances,  once you withhold the "head" games he will be willing to do anything.   In the rare instance that he is just having no parts of giving you a little oral luvin', I would like to think  that I could deal but who knows?   You never really miss or want something until it is no longer available to you and for me, Oral = a sure fire orgasm... EVERY  time, most times in under 2-3 minutes.   If I had to go without, dude's bedroom skills BETTER  be off the chain.  He better be willing and able to go above and beyond the call of duty to make sure I'm satisfied because in most instances, penetration alone will not get me there.

My girls said "If he ain't licking the pussy ain't no need in wasting my time."  They have seemed to reach a consensus that his ass  should and would be kicked to the curb with the quickness because after all, "What man doesn't eat pussy  in this day and age?" I,  on the other hand, would like to think that I'm not that shallow.......  or am I?  All I can say is I hope I never have to find out. lol

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