I was in KFC and saw the most incredulous thing, A chick was in there arguing with another female about HER man over the phone! What's even more incredulous is the fact that when I returned about an hour later, said man was there and he and the chick were on the phone trying to call this female. (I know you're thinking damn, KFC twice in one day biut it's not like that) I promised someone that I would bring a personal pan pizza home and since this is the slowest KFC known to man, I went to order ahead of time because had I not, I would've had at least an half an hour wait. But anyway back to this chick, I hear her screaming into the phone how much her man loves her and that this other girl is obviously lying, and when said man arrived, she was telling him that the girl said she met his family and they were together last night. Personally, I know the boyfriend was guilty as hell. I could see it all over his face. But anyway this chick was going off and I just strated thinking, That would never be me. I wish I would get all excited and hyper over some raggedy ass dude and yes, she did work there. Had it been me I would've just said," Oh yeah, okay thanks for the call" and then went on about my business. I don't have time to entertain that type of foolishness, especially while I am working. That's crazy!!! I had one chick call me over a male friend of mine. That broad was calling me damn near daily , long distance mind you, trying to question me about my friend. How's that for insecurity? I know had it been me, the last thing I would be worried about is another bitch in another state. Now he did like me at one point but there was nothing going on with us. We went out once and may have kissed once or twice but that was it. He really wasn't my type at all. I couldn't believe this girl had the audacity to call me and try to go off. Had she come at me like a woman, I would've told her the truth, that nothing was going on and we were just friends but she had to call me acting crazy so I just said things to fuck with her head. I told her we were fucking and everything she probably didn't really want to hear. That type of thing is just crazy!!! I swore that I would never call another woman about a man. Shoot,if it can't be handled between he and I, then oh well. I ain't the one to be trying to check on no dick. Especially to the extent that I have to be following him around and calling up folks trying to find out where he is and who he is with. I'd leave his ass first. There are two things that I have come to realize: 1. If a man truly loves you, NOTHING can take him away, no woman, no money, no thing and 2. If a man truly wants to leave, NOTHING , no pregnancy, no chld, no buying his love can make him stay. Women need to realize that and learn to be okay with it. It will save you a lifetime of heartache and strife.

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It's Fridaaaayyyy! I'm so dayum glad the work week has ended. I'm sitting here messing around until it's time for me to get outta here. I'm going to happy hour with a few co-workers and them I will head on home. Don't have any plans as of yet unless somebody calls me and wants to do something. If not, I will be chillin' in the tub with a good book and a glass of wine. I saw Youngin' this morning. Shoot I see him every morning since he works at my coffe spot. That boy is just determined that he is going to get some of this but as much confidence as he has, I got double. He's persistent though and if he wasn't so young there is no doubt that I would've been all over that. lol He's either 20 or 21 and I can't do anything with that right now. It's hard but I'm going to hold out a bit longer. I was with a young dude before and aside from the sex ( which was all that) we just didn't have much in common. He got overly attached thinking he was my man when I made it clear from the beginning that I wasn't looking for a relationship, didn't have time for one, and it/we would never be anything more that what it was. He got almost stalkerish so I had to cut him off and that was enough to let me know that a young guy cannot handle a relationship, fling, what have you with an older woman especially when the pussy is good! Now that's not to say that I will never have a younger man. because shit, men do that all day everyday but I do have my imits though, no younger than 2 years and I have a few more years than that on the youngin. No deal.... I think?

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