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Tuesday, March 04, 2008

To Eat or Not to Eat?......That is the Question.

How important is Cunnilingus to you? To your relationship?  Could you see yourself in a relationship where this was not an option?  How about if you were married and it still was not an option?  I asked mysef these same questions and surprised myself  somewhat.   I guess it would depend on how much I loved the guy.  I guess I could see myself in a relationship where this wasn't an option but that would have to go both ways because If i'm not getting any,  he isn't either.

I love oral sex as long as I am on the receiving end.  I'm very generous with my giving as well but I have to be the one initiating it. (None of that hand on the back of the head shyt trying to coax you down and keep you down.... don't act like ya'll don't know what I'm talking about)

 Ya'll know the type of female that truly enjoys giving head.  I mean she can cum by just making him cum.  Most times she'd rather do that than anything else and her oral fixation is insatiable....well ummm...errrr... that chick is not me.  I don't love it but I don't hate it either.  It really does nothing for me (as I'm sure it isn't supposed to) but I do like the control that I have while doing it. 
 
Anyway, back to my original question.  I think it's safe to assume that most men will lick a little clit now-a-days.  There may be some who will play the role like they don't and they may need a little push but they're down to at least try. While it is a rarity (at least I believe it to be) there may be that one man  that just refuses to go down on you.  He may have had a bad experience with hygiene,  it may be due to his upbringing or he just doesn't believe that the mouth is supposed to be used on the  genitals.  Whatever his reasoning may be, is his refusal to perform Cunnilingus an automatic deal breaker for you or do you think that you could change his mind?

 I think that most men love head way too much to ever totally give it up so in most instances,  once you withhold the "head" games he will be willing to do anything.   In the rare instance that he is just having no parts of giving you a little oral luvin', I would like to think  that I could deal but who knows?   You never really miss or want something until it is no longer available to you and for me, Oral = a sure fire orgasm... EVERY  time, most times in under 2-3 minutes.   If I had to go without, dude's bedroom skills BETTER  be off the chain.  He better be willing and able to go above and beyond the call of duty to make sure I'm satisfied because in most instances, penetration alone will not get me there.

My girls said "If he ain't licking the pussy ain't no need in wasting my time."  They have seemed to reach a consensus that his ass  should and would be kicked to the curb with the quickness because after all, "What man doesn't eat pussy  in this day and age?" I,  on the other hand, would like to think that I'm not that shallow.......  or am I?  All I can say is I hope I never have to find out. lol

3 comments:

brookiebaby said...

I always thought the excuse of hygeine was such a joke. You know it isn't just women who don't smell "fresh" down there, I've come across a stank dick or two. . . lol

MiMi said...

Girl I've come across a musty ball or two myself and let me tell you, wasn't nothing poppin' off after that! Dude must be smelling fresh and clean at all times.

CCGroovy!!! said...

I hope U never have 2 find out either. I'm diabetic; so if bad comes to worse; I can get Viagra. But if I ever get any type of ORAL CANCER; just let me die !!!