What am I going to do with these dayum men. I told ya'll about the old dude and now I have a feeling that my c0-worker ( the one who replaced first one) wants to ask me out. I think he is just trying to get up enough nerve to do it and I really hope that is not the case. We have a lot of down time between workshops so to pass the time we either play games on line or watch movies. We get along really great and aside from him telling me that he thought the old dude found me extremely attractive he really hadn't said much else but the past few days, he has been hinting around alot. The old guy came in today and he really didn't say much other than how is everything going. When he left my co-worker said "Now he just says hi and bye huh?" I said yeah, and that's how I like it. Then he said that he thinks he makes him uncomfortable which is why he keeps it brief when he is there. I said "Oh, he's uncomfortale when you're here" and he said "Yeah, he doesn't like me too much." I said "He likes you just fine." But anyway either his first or second day there, he told me his birthday was coming up. I asked him what he was doing and he said the same as last year, nothing. Me and by big ass mouth said you have to go out on your birthday and celebrate and he said it's just another day to him. I kept on and on so now for the past few days he has said something to the effect that he is trying to find something to do for his birthday and I would change the subject before he got to it good. Today he says he thinks he is going to check out this new restaurant that serves African food. I asked him if he like African food and he said he never tried it. I said I know they eat FuFu but I tend to stick to the things I know and then he said that's right, you like pasta. Then he says you don't go out alot do you and I said No. (lol knowing my ass goes out too much) He then asks when is the last time that I been out. I'm thinking last night but I plan to tell him it's been so long I can't remember (then I thought that would give him an in to ask me out so I said last month) Anyway, we were inturrupted which is always a good thing, while we were watching this dvd and I look over at him and he is staring at me. I didn't say anything, just went back to watching the movie. It is so obvious to me that dude is feeling me which is why I can't understand it when these dudes are in relationships and say that they couldn't tell that their boys mama, sister, baby mama, (inseet random female here) is trying to get with them. That is a load of shit. But anyway, I don't want dude to ask me out because then i'd have to say no and rejection will almost always put a damper on our working relationship and I have to see him for at least another week.