I was in KFC and saw the most incredulous thing, A chick was in there arguing with another female about HER man over the phone! What's even more incredulous is the fact that when I returned about an hour later, said man was there and he and the chick were on the phone trying to call this female. (I know you're thinking damn, KFC twice in one day biut it's not like that) I promised someone that I would bring a personal pan pizza home and since this is the slowest KFC known to man, I went to order ahead of time because had I not, I would've had at least an half an hour wait. But anyway back to this chick, I hear her screaming into the phone how much her man loves her and that this other girl is obviously lying, and when said man arrived, she was telling him that the girl said she met his family and they were together last night. Personally, I know the boyfriend was guilty as hell. I could see it all over his face. But anyway this chick was going off and I just strated thinking, That would never be me. I wish I would get all excited and hyper over some raggedy ass dude and yes, she did work there. Had it been me I would've just said," Oh yeah, okay thanks for the call" and then went on about my business. I don't have time to entertain that type of foolishness, especially while I am working. That's crazy!!! I had one chick call me over a male friend of mine. That broad was calling me damn near daily , long distance mind you, trying to question me about my friend. How's that for insecurity? I know had it been me, the last thing I would be worried about is another bitch in another state. Now he did like me at one point but there was nothing going on with us. We went out once and may have kissed once or twice but that was it. He really wasn't my type at all. I couldn't believe this girl had the audacity to call me and try to go off. Had she come at me like a woman, I would've told her the truth, that nothing was going on and we were just friends but she had to call me acting crazy so I just said things to fuck with her head. I told her we were fucking and everything she probably didn't really want to hear. That type of thing is just crazy!!! I swore that I would never call another woman about a man. Shoot,if it can't be handled between he and I, then oh well. I ain't the one to be trying to check on no dick. Especially to the extent that I have to be following him around and calling up folks trying to find out where he is and who he is with. I'd leave his ass first. There are two things that I have come to realize: 1. If a man truly loves you, NOTHING can take him away, no woman, no money, no thing and 2. If a man truly wants to leave, NOTHING , no pregnancy, no chld, no buying his love can make him stay. Women need to realize that and learn to be okay with it. It will save you a lifetime of heartache and strife.