The girl just knows these things

Today was my last day with the co-worker and just like I knew he would, he asked me out (of course he did it in a round -a-bout way but he did it never-the-less). The old dude kept coming into my office (conveniently when my co-worker was gone) saying that he was going to miss me and things. He asked me if I would keep in contact (by the way, he is 62 years old) I told him that I do email but I DON"T do phone. lol He asked me for my email address and I gave it to him only because I figured I wouldn't have to see him ever again after that) Anyway, he is asking me about going out to dinner and I can't remember exactly what I said but I do remember him saying "What's the matter? You're not interested?" I was thinking FINALLY, a chance to let him know so I said NO, I'm not and then this fucker had the nerve to say you will be. lol I said you're confident huh? And he said Definitely, I will change your mind and I won't be a pest about it. He gave me his email addy, home phone, cell phone, work phone, etc lol and of course I have no intention of using them. He said if he emails me and I don't respond, I will never hear from him again, so far so good! Now back to my co-worker. It was getting close to 5 (which is the time we get off but we had to stay and clean up our workspace since we wouldn't be returning back to that particular location) Now let me backtrack. Remember when I said he kept talking about his impending birthday. Well, I decided that because I didn't want him to ask me out, I would just chill out with my friendly, bubbly personality and tone it down a bit. I became semi quiet and really not too talkative with him. We still watched movies and things but I was extrememly reserved the 2 days prior to his birthday and the day after, so much so that he felt the need to ask me what was wrong with me. I also didn't acknowledge his birthday which I know was kind of rude and mean and I did regret this later. He never mentioned it so neither did I. About two days after his birthday, I was back to my old self. He kept saying that I was feisty(about 5 times in a row) and then kept taking our conversation to a personal level. like asking me have I ever cheated on a boyfriend and all kind of things that were absolutely none of his business. Now fast forward to the last day, end of work day and he says he is going to go home and get some rest and then he reaches over, rubs my thigh , squeezes it a bit and says "then we are going to go out" lol. The approach could use some work but I figured he would wait until the last day to make his move. I said that I don't go out and he said "I know, I'm not talking about to a club but to a little jazz spot or somwhere where you can drink a little bit and get your nod on". I said no that's alright and then he said that he didn't know anything about me except for my first and last name and he was going to go home and google me to get my number. Lol We'll see, We'll see! OOH I forgot to mention that he dressed up too. Had his little dress shoes and socks, slacks and leather sportscoat. ( up until today he was a jeans and sweats type of dude) I kept looking at him and he is an attractive dude. Bowlegged (and I LOVVVEEE me some bowlegs) I don't know what it was about him though that didn't do it for me. Hes not an ugly guy at all (rather nice looking and even moreso from the back!) Anyway, we were interrupted once again and I didn't give him an opportunity to bring the convo back up. After I said that I didn't go out he also got quiet and surprisingly didn't have much to say to me after that. Oh well, At least it was our last day together.

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What am I going to do with these dayum men. I told ya'll about the old dude and now I have a feeling that my c0-worker ( the one who replaced first one) wants to ask me out. I think he is just trying to get up enough nerve to do it and I really hope that is not the case. We have a lot of down time between workshops so to pass the time we either play games on line or watch movies. We get along really great and aside from him telling me that he thought the old dude found me extremely attractive he really hadn't said much else but the past few days, he has been hinting around alot. The old guy came in today and he really didn't say much other than how is everything going. When he left my co-worker said "Now he just says hi and bye huh?" I said yeah, and that's how I like it. Then he said that he thinks he makes him uncomfortable which is why he keeps it brief when he is there. I said "Oh, he's uncomfortale when you're here" and he said "Yeah, he doesn't like me too much." I said "He likes you just fine." But anyway either his first or second day there, he told me his birthday was coming up. I asked him what he was doing and he said the same as last year, nothing. Me and by big ass mouth said you have to go out on your birthday and celebrate and he said it's just another day to him. I kept on and on so now for the past few days he has said something to the effect that he is trying to find something to do for his birthday and I would change the subject before he got to it good. Today he says he thinks he is going to check out this new restaurant that serves African food. I asked him if he like African food and he said he never tried it. I said I know they eat FuFu but I tend to stick to the things I know and then he said that's right, you like pasta. Then he says you don't go out alot do you and I said No. (lol knowing my ass goes out too much) He then asks when is the last time that I been out. I'm thinking last night but I plan to tell him it's been so long I can't remember (then I thought that would give him an in to ask me out so I said last month) Anyway, we were inturrupted which is always a good thing, while we were watching this dvd and I look over at him and he is staring at me. I didn't say anything, just went back to watching the movie. It is so obvious to me that dude is feeling me which is why I can't understand it when these dudes are in relationships and say that they couldn't tell that their boys mama, sister, baby mama, (inseet random female here) is trying to get with them. That is a load of shit. But anyway, I don't want dude to ask me out because then i'd have to say no and rejection will almost always put a damper on our working relationship and I have to see him for at least another week.

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