Dickey ,Dickey, Dickey

I'm getting spring fever again.  I don't know what it is  about this time of the year that gets me horny as hell.  ( I sat down the wrong way today and caught a feeling so you know I got it bad) I stay fiending for dick this time of the year and that cannot be a good thing since I'm trying to be a good girl.  I'm amazed at how easily I become aroused.  I guess I'm like a dude in the sense that I'm a visual person and with the pretty mofo I saw today..If I had a dick, it definitely would've been hard on sight.  I mean absolutely gorgeous. I gave him nothing more than small, insignificant chit-chat though.  I'm not really in the market for another man to bring me drama that I definitely don't need right now. I go through these phases every now and then and one would think that I've gotten used to it or at least prepared myself for it.  But  no,  I haven't yet learned my lesson.  I'm probably one of the only females that does not and has not owned a vibrator, EVER.  As insatiable as I've been, it's a good thing too because I'm liable to never get up out of bed, or worse yet, I'll have no use for a man.  Like I've said before , this dayum book I'm reading isn't helping at all.  It's putting lustful thoughts and ideas into my head and me having been known to act on impulse on more than one occasion is so not good.  It's taking all my strength to not pick up the phone and call HIM, but I know what would happen if I do.  Why can't some people just accept a situation for what it is, enjoy it for that moment and then let go?  When I meet a new "interest"  and I'm not really interested in being in a committed relationship,  I let it be known up front. Dudes are usually okay with that until they start catching feelings or they want to lay claim to you.  I cannot deal with that shyt right now.  Why can't we just hang out,  fuck from time to time and still be friends.  Yes, I've been on the other side of the coin where I've been told what was up from jump and still made the decision to get involved.  My feelings may have been involved but I knew the deal from the beginning and I appreciated the truth.  Flippin' the script halfway through after the rules have already been laid out.... what part of the game is that?  Anyway, I will not be tempted because although the dick is Très Bien,  the drama that will most certainly follow is not.  Guess I'll pour myself a glass of wine and let my fingers do the walking.  LMAO.  Anyone want to contribute to my vibrator fund?  Yeah, I'm going to put a little donation button on here so I can pick up a little sumpin' sumpin' from Good Vibrations.  I hear they have some good shit there.  Any and all suggestions and donations are welcome.  lol  Nothing too powerful or addictive though.  I don't want someone to walk in and find me keeled over with my clit rubbed off from overuse.  

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I did not have TEXT with that woman

I was just sitting her talking to some co-workers about Kwame Kilpatrick.  I don't Know what it is with these men cheating on their wives and getting caught. Kwame Kilpatrick is being charged with perjury over his lies pertaining to his affair. He deserved to be caught too because he wasn't even smart about it. Text messages? TEXT MESSAGES? C'mon now Kwame, you just wanted to give old girl some evidence to show your wife if and when things went sour between you all. At least Bill made Monica work for her cum stained dress..but you, you want to send a Text Message. I guess he learned nothing from Bill Clinton and his "I did not have sex with that woman" Well he did learn something ....he learned that it didn't work for Bill and it ain't gonna work for him !

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We Need This Type Of Sexy In The White House

So What I jacked these photos from My girl Kizz's  joint....  but Lawdy if  these photos don't make Barack  look sexy as hell!    I love these candid photos because they let us see the laid back, down to earth  side of the man!    

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A sistah is tired as hell

I'm about to head on out in an hour or two to meet the girls for our spa day. Dayum! I'm looking forward to it too because my ass needs to be rubbed, kneaded, massaged and everything else badly. I'm even willing to brave this snow that is coming down in order to get my spa fix. Yes, I said SNOW!  Can you believe it?  Here it is March, Daylight Savings Time is tomorrow, Spring fever is somewhat in the air, and its snowing out!  Unbelievable!  Anyway, back to my spa day.  I am going to get the works..... mani, pedi, massage, mud wrap, facial, scalp massage, erythang!  I need it too and I cannot wait!!!!!  

On Wednesday, I was up for 21 hours straight.  I have never felt as tired as I felt that day.  I was sitting in my ride at the stop light at about 3:30 in the morning  and  I just zoned out.  I remember staring at the light waiting for it to change and then not too much afterwards. I'm petty sure my eyes weren't closed but when I "snapped out of it"  so to speak, I didn't even know if I had sat through some lights or what, that's how tired I was.  That happened to me twice before I made it home.   Before, I could never understand how people could fall asleep at the wheel.  I always wondered why they wouldn't just pull over if they felt sleepy instead of risking having an accident.  Now I fully understand! I've never been that tired before in all my life.  I mean, the closer I got to home, the more physically ill I got.  I had the headache from hell and my stomach felt like it was in knots, all that due to lack of sleep.  When I finally made it in, I barely had enough energy to take off my pants (didn't even bother with  my shirt) and I literally fell into bed.  I coveted those two hours of sleep because I had to get up at 5:30 A.M. the next day.   Yes, I am disciplined like that!  2 hours sleep after  being awake for 22 hours straight, and I still wake up on time:  no alarm clock needed!  *poppin' mah collar*  Needless to say, I was no good to anyone.  Jazzy had the nerve to want to go out last night but I couldn't do it.  I'm still not completely caught up on my rest yet and on top of that, I get to lose an hour tomorrow due to the clocks "springing" forward.  I suspect after I receive the works today, I'll be close to being back to normal and feeling like my old self again.  I promised I would go out tonight but my plans as of now are tentative at best.  Depends on how I'm feeling!

Since I've missed the Old School Friday, last week and this week, I thought I'd leave you with this from the Brand Nubians.  I know ya'll know about Grand Puba..lol  New School hip hop ain't got shyt on the artists from back in the day.   ENJOY!

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To Eat or Not to Eat?......That is the Question.

How important is Cunnilingus to you? To your relationship?  Could you see yourself in a relationship where this was not an option?  How about if you were married and it still was not an option?  I asked mysef these same questions and surprised myself  somewhat.   I guess it would depend on how much I loved the guy.  I guess I could see myself in a relationship where this wasn't an option but that would have to go both ways because If i'm not getting any,  he isn't either.

I love oral sex as long as I am on the receiving end.  I'm very generous with my giving as well but I have to be the one initiating it. (None of that hand on the back of the head shyt trying to coax you down and keep you down.... don't act like ya'll don't know what I'm talking about)

 Ya'll know the type of female that truly enjoys giving head.  I mean she can cum by just making him cum.  Most times she'd rather do that than anything else and her oral fixation is insatiable....well ummm...errrr... that chick is not me.  I don't love it but I don't hate it either.  It really does nothing for me (as I'm sure it isn't supposed to) but I do like the control that I have while doing it. 

 

Anyway, back to my original question.  I think it's safe to assume that most men will lick a little clit now-a-days.  There may be some who will play the role like they don't and they may need a little push but they're down to at least try. While it is a rarity (at least I believe it to be) there may be that one man  that just refuses to go down on you.  He may have had a bad experience with hygiene,  it may be due to his upbringing or he just doesn't believe that the mouth is supposed to be used on the  genitals.  Whatever his reasoning may be, is his refusal to perform Cunnilingus an automatic deal breaker for you or do you think that you could change his mind?

 I think that most men love head way too much to ever totally give it up so in most instances,  once you withhold the "head" games he will be willing to do anything.   In the rare instance that he is just having no parts of giving you a little oral luvin', I would like to think  that I could deal but who knows?   You never really miss or want something until it is no longer available to you and for me, Oral = a sure fire orgasm... EVERY  time, most times in under 2-3 minutes.   If I had to go without, dude's bedroom skills BETTER  be off the chain.  He better be willing and able to go above and beyond the call of duty to make sure I'm satisfied because in most instances, penetration alone will not get me there.

My girls said "If he ain't licking the pussy ain't no need in wasting my time."  They have seemed to reach a consensus that his ass  should and would be kicked to the curb with the quickness because after all, "What man doesn't eat pussy  in this day and age?" I,  on the other hand, would like to think that I'm not that shallow.......  or am I?  All I can say is I hope I never have to find out. lol

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Ladies, We Have Got To Do Better Than This

For those of you who may not know, this is the audition/casting call for Plies' "Bust It Baby" reality show which is possibly in the works.

 

Really Ladies(and I use that term very loosely because ain't nary a one of those chicks in that video a lady"? Is this what we have become? Do we really think so little of ourselves that we would be willing to degrade ourselves in such a way as this? For what? Some face time on a reality TV show? An opportunity to be in the presence of a rapper as long as the cameras are rolling(because he damn sure will not be wifing any of you. The most that you can hope to become is a part time jump off and the chance of you even becoming that is slim to none) Why would any lady want to be referred to as someone's "Bust It Baby"? The term alone should be a turn off as it triggers thoughts of being someone's cum receptacle... that's it, that's all, nothing more! Regardless of whether or not you're a Whore or a Slore, (or in this case , because I don't know these girls personally, give the impression thereof) if that's you, do you, but please, have enough sense not to do it on cam for the entire world to see. You may say "Well I'm young, I'm just having some fun while I still can" but do not the young( or young minded in this instance because these chicks look like grown azz women to me), eventually need to grow up? Do they not eventually become older and more mature...hopefully? Do you really want a keepsake of you stating how you love to feel a penis hitting your tonsils recorded on video forever? What if you find the man of your dreams who happens to be an upstanding citizen and well respected member of the community? Suppose you become such a person yourself? What about future children and Grandchildren? Do you really what them seeing this side of you when your 15 minutes of fame comes back to haunt you (and it undoubtedly will) Trust! I hope not!
Some of the rappers have ben bashed because some believe that their lyrics and videos are contributing to the degradation of women. While that may be true to a certain extent , some of us do a good job of that on our on. We don't need a rapper to degrade us because we degrade ourselves. I don't think that you can blame it on the lyrics of some hip hop artists when we are the ones clamoring to be in the videos, be in the reality Tv shows, be seen with the very same person who called you a video hoe or a bitch in one of his songs. Not only that but we allow ourselves to be seen fucking and sucking, stripping, boasting about our body parts and everything else on cam. C'mon Ladies, We have got to do better than this because this shyt right here, don't make no sense.!

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Ladies Keep yourself

So I just found out that a friend that I know has passed away. (The phone keeps ringing with people calling to tell me that she passed.)She was 44 years old.  Now she and I weren't particularly friends per se because she was one of the older girls, but she was a friend of my cousin and since everyone in the neighborhood were either related or grew up together, I refer to her as a friend.  It always saddens me to hear that someone has died.  I mean it just consumes me in such a way that I can't think of anything but their death.  I remember when she had her baby at the age of 16. This baby was so pretty and had the prettiest hazel eyes.  I can remember running over to her house to see the baby and her not wanting anyof us kids to touch her.  (The"baby", who is not such a baby anymore, has since had a child of her own)  Anyway,  I can remember her being rather fast for her age.   I'm not sure but I think she left home not too long after she had the baby and just became wild.  I hadn't seen her in years but I had heard from other family and friends that she was on drugs.  Now what kind of drugs she was doing, I have no idea and I wouldn't even go so far as to call her an addict because I really don't know.  I had also heard rumors of her having AIDS.  I did see her one or two years ago when I went back home for something.  She spoke and I spoke.  She didn't look too good to me, She looked old and thin and I think she was even using a cane to get around.  I felt horrible seeing her looking like that. My family members were telling me that what I saw, was a good look compared to what she had been looking like.  Anyway,  I guess she had been sick and had recovered from her sickness.  She moved back in with her mom and her daughter.  Her daughter didn't like her too much.(I suspect it stems from separation issues)  If you are running the streets, you don't have much time to spend with or care for a child.  She didn't want her to have anything to do with her own grandchild and she also talked plenty shit about her.  She would see her mom walking and drive right on by her.  When I heard that she passed and her family was there, my mind immediately went to her daughter. It would'nt surprise me if she hadn't even bothered to show up from the things that I had been hearing about her. Anyway, she is no longer in pain and hopefully she is in a better place.  It just saddens me to know that she died before her time and from such a horrible disease.  Tragic!

She isn't the only person that I know who died relatively young.  I know another girl who I grew up with( we weren't friends either because she was never allowed outside ) who died at the age of 27 of a drug overdose.  I believe that her parents were so strict on her that she couldn't wait to fly the coup.  She wasn't allowed outside,  always had to wear dresses or skirts(never pants or shorts)  lived in church(which is a good thing) but a child needs to have room to grow.  I, being a child as well, wasn't always the nicest person to her.  I may have teased her a bit as is often the case with children, never realizing how it affected her until years later. My cousin told me that she said that she couldn't stand me.  I'm thinking why not?  The only thing she knows about me is my name.  I never messed with her like that and then I remembered I may have teased her a bit.  Anyway, I guess her sheltered lifestyle caused her to run rampant.  I remember seeing her a few months before she OD'd.  We were in the grocery store and she came and said something to my Aunt.  I couldn't stop staring at her because she looked bad.  Her eyes were bloodshot and yellowed.  I told my aunt that she looked like she had been drinking and my aunt said "Girl, she does everything, drugs too".  I was shocked because I knew how she used to be but then again not surprised.   My Aunt told me they found her dead of a drug overdose not too much longer after that.  She left behind 3 little kids.  I mean under the age of 6.   I guess if I could say anything, it would be "Don't be in such a rush to grow up" Enjoy  your childhood and being a kid while you can.  Everything that you think that you are missing out on will still be there when you are old enough to handle and to enjoy them."  I would hate for anyone else to end up like my acquaintances because they were in such a rush to grow up!

May they both RIP!!!!

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